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I feel like I've become indifferent to dating and finding companionship over the years. I had a bad breakup back in and I know it sounds silly but I feel like my whole perspective on finding companionship has changed since then.
I've pretty much been single since then. I've had a couple of guys ask for my number but I turn them down even though I see potential.
I appear to be outgoing and friendly when having a conversation which is why I think they built the courage to ask me outbut I sort of tense up when they show interest.
There have also been men that I was attracted to but I don't pursue them in Indifferent to dating or show any interest.
I used to find excitement in chasing men I was interested in. I no longer have the motivation or interest to do it anymore. Anyone else in my position? Am I just afraid of being hurt? Did I just not find the right one yet? Would love to hear your two cents. I felt like that for a time. Then I realized I was letting my past relationship ruin any chance of a happier future. It's all about perspective.
You may be perfectly happy being single, and that's okay. I hope you are happy regardless, but keep my favorite quote in mind:. Once you get your heart broken dating just isn't as fun.
It's the same for men as well I think. You might compare people you date to the person you fell in love with so it's hard. I think for me, it's that I find very few people I actually connect with. Sure, you're cute, but I need you to have a brain, too. I'm too independent and I think I'm an awesome catch, yay narcissism! Ugh, I don't have time to boost your ego. Sorry that rant went in a lot of directions.
Basically, I don't want to put up with crap and refuse to settle. So I snuggle my dog. What do you mean by do all the work? I think I know what you mean but just wondering like
Indifferent to dating examples would be. I'm independent too in a way and Im not very good at people pleasing. I'm introverted so i guess that's why.
Coming up with all the conversation topics. Just because I make my wage talking to people doesn't mean I want to live my life in a one-sided conversation. Pick a fucking movie. It's your house and you have the fucking remote in your hand. I am also introverted in that I get exhausted social situations and then have to spend most of the next day recovering for the next night of tending barand dating just gets to be exhausting.
I get over it real quick.