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When should a man start dating

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Dating can be a tricky business.

What should you wear? Where should you meet? How much should you say?

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How soon after your date should you call? Your ripped jeans may be lucky, but remember, this will be the first impression your date gets of you.

Now all you have to worry about is turning up on time. Plus, as dating can be a daunting experience, help cut through those nerves by arranging to meet up in familiar territory. This will help make you feel more comfortable. Women value confidence highly when it comes to choosing a guy.

She will sense your confidence as you talk passionately about it. Many people may also be shy about their appearance.

Try to keep what you have to say short and concise. If this date goes well, there will be lots more opportunities to share your stories in the future. Listening is important, as it shows that you are interested in what she has to say.

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Try to keep your conversation light-hearted. Women want a guy who can make them laugh and ask the right questions. Yes you do have to be serious sometimes, but in the early stages of dating, have some fun.

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Talking about your ex is dangerous territory. Your date will not be interested and it can make things feel awkward between you. If your date does bring up the subject, try to keep answers short without appearing suspicious. Reassure her that your past is history and that you want to spend your time getting to know her instead. Turn your phone off completely. Things have shifted and most women will assume that they are paying for their share of the bill.

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