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How to start hookup again after an abusive relationship

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During my five year marriage, my ex-husband used verbal, financial, and emotional abuse to increase his control over every aspect of my life.

Dating after abuse

And it can be wearing on a new relationship. For my first Christmas with my new boyfriend I made kringlar, a Norwegian bread recipe passed down from my great-grandmother.

It was bread, right? Certainly not worth jumping all over him.

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But living your life on the edge of constant tension takes its toll. Not only is my default to expect an attack from a romantic partner, I may react irrationally to normal behavior.

Steven Stosny has spent twenty years working with abusive relationships. In this time he has noticed a gender distinction in that men who emotionally abuse typically use abuse to control and create fear.

The usual reaction to fear is hypervigilance. Why did she stay?

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